There are two types of people:
The ones, who will handle what life brings them, learn the lesson and let go. They are able to progress easier in life. They tend to have a positive personality. And everyone tends to be drawn to these types of people. There is something about a person who is able to let go that is so attractive to others who seem to have issues following this practice.
Then there are the others that can’t handle what life brings them. They tend to keep repeating the same old mistakes. They can’t understand why certain things keep happening over and over again. And they also tend to be miserable. They tend to be bitter and live a lonely life.
We all go through life experiences whether its good or bad. But when its an unfavorable experience like, losing a love one, a breakup, job loss, foreclosure, argument or etc. It’s the length of time from the unfavorable outcome to the time of letting go, which will determine how long it will take for something better to enter your life. Because its determined by your perception / view on life.
Ever wonder why someone looks so miserable. Why they can’t bring themselves to enjoy life. Why they tend to be mean spirited or look sad most of the time. I always wondered what happened to them that they see so impossible to let go. Holding on so tight isn’t letting any blessings or good karma enter into their lives. Let these types of people be a lesson of how not to behave.
The hardest lesson in life but I’ve learned by letting go.
I was pregnant with a set of twins. One lil mama and one lil man. I gave birth and lost my son 4 days later. I couldn’t get over how I felt his life in me and now he is no longer here. At first I was extremely mad at myself. I blamed myself for allowing others to stress me out during my pregnancy. Then I thought maybe it’s my uterus that couldn’t provide the nutrients he needed to survive. I came up with a million reasons. One day I had to say “God knows best “and now I have an inseparable bond with my baby girl. I know in my heart that God will bless me with a son. There is no sense in holding on to the thoughts of what happen to my lil man and why is he no longer here with me. I use this experience when I am going through a rough time, because no one should ever have to lose a child. So any other unfavorable life experiences are a cake walk when compared to losing my child. It gives me the strength to just deal with the outcome and move on, so my blessings can come my way.
I always say….
I have one life to live and I WILL enjoy it. I WILL accomplish any and every goal, dream or fulfill my destiny. IT’S MY TIME to get happy. IT’S MY TIME to let go and be consumed by my blessings.
So I ask you this….
Are you going to let go, be free and see the better things flow into your life??
Are you going to hold on so tight, become miserable and hold up the blessings???
The choice is yours.
Click on the link below to see one of my blessings in action.